…and I know what it’s like to watch life as you knew it fall apart.

For me, it was a divorce, a breakup that shattered me, and an alcohol addiction I used to numb the ache. I thought I was “strong” because I kept going working, raising my daughter, pushing through. But the truth? I was surviving, not living.

I was disconnected from myself, from others, and from the person I knew I could be. I couldn’t sit in silence without reaching for something a drink, a distraction, another person to fill the void.

The turning point came when I faced the truth I didn’t want to hear: I had lost myself. And that’s when my reckoning began.

Through every breaking point, I learned that awakening doesn’t come from avoiding the pain it comes from facing it head-on. Transformation begins when we confront ourselves honestly, shed the versions that no longer serve us, and make space for who we’re meant to become.

That’s why I created The Phoenix Reckoning Method a process rooted in deep self-confrontation, radical ownership, and rising. It’s the path I took to release who I was and fully embody who I am today.

Now, I guide others through the fire so they can rise from the ashes, too.